say what you need to say

Why can’t I just say to people what I want to say? They will get hurt or offended or something. I just want to tell you!!! Do you know how much it bothers me that I can’t? A LOT!! If I like someone I just want to be able to tell him without it being awkward. If something that someone does really bothers me, I feel like I can’t tell them! I hate hurting people. I hate being hurt. Why can’t other people say what they want to say?!?!?! Holy crap! If you want to tell me something tell me!! Don’t avoid it, don’t dance around it, just tell me (however if you are a guy, please be kind about it)! AND! This blog is totally my way of dancing around it. Being the girl I am the person is supposed to look at this and know that it is about them and apply it. But that’s not going to happen!!! Anyway, sometimes I just want to tell a person something without being judged or them thinking badly about me or it changing the relationship in a negative way. I am too scared! Like I said, I don’t like hurting and I don’t like being hurt. Can I PLEASE just tell you?!?!